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Mia Kiraki 🎭's avatar

Such a needed piece :) most productivity advice assumes you have the nervous system of a 25 year old with no responsibilities... Building architecture that works with your actual energy instead of against it is a great skill almost nobody wants to teach?

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Benjamin Antoine's avatar

right? I feel like most of the productivity space is geared towards teenagers and just doesn’t have much real application in most peoples lives, especially those in there 40’s and 50’s

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Mia Kiraki 🎭's avatar

Very good point!

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Will G.'s avatar

Love this!

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Amal's avatar

Great insights throughout this article! This one in particular: 'Contrary to popular belief, the brain does not multitask, it fractures.' In any field that demands mental effort, trying to 'do everything at once' often fragments focus and increases mistakes. Technically, the brain can handle certain tasks in parallel, but only if they don’t compete for the same cognitive resources. Maybe multitasking isn’t impossible, it just requires strategy?

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Benjamin Antoine's avatar

As far as I can understand we don’t multitask we switch focus between tasks so doing multiple things at once is always going to be less efficient

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Rob's avatar

The idea of "Structure your creative rhythm around your natural energy peaks and valleys" is something I've found to be true as well. Having set times to write is great for discipline, consistency and reduced friction, but sometimes you gotta go with the flow too.

On weekends when I have more time, I might start my heaviest mental load writing after breakfast, then intentionally do some house work in between, followed by more monotonous stuff afterwards, followed by focused writing again before bed. The key is noticing your body's natural ebbs and flows and working with them. Not to mention all the other responsibilities of mid life.

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Benjamin Antoine's avatar

That’s 100% it

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Faraaz's avatar

Whilst this post is targeted at midlife, I think there’s a lot of wisdom that can be extracted and implemented into my own life.

Using writing as a way to explore the depth of connection to your values is a a really helpful way to filter through all the noise and understand what’s really you.

Thanks for sharing this

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Benjamin Antoine's avatar

Thanks for the support Faraaz. I really hope it helped

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Eternal Souls Matter (Suzanne)'s avatar

Interesting read.

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Ink & Heritage's avatar

What a great piece! For those of us building on a previous career, this is gold!

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Benjamin Antoine's avatar

Thanks a lotπŸ˜€

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Laura Lollar's avatar

This was great Ben. Made perfect sense and answered some questions I’ve been having about my own creativity. Thank you!

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Benjamin Antoine's avatar

Thanks Laura. Thanks fro stopping by :)

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Julius Mori-RΓ©gnier's avatar

So true! A different way to think about what you shared is to ask yourself, β€œwhat is enough for me?” I find that, if I wait long enough, it helps me bring back a vision of my values and what I want to create. It also drowns out the noise. It helps protect my energy and keep it focused on what I want to see in the world. Thank you for the reminder, Benjamin!

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Julius Mori-RΓ©gnier's avatar

By the way, I couldn’t find the link in the footer you mentioned!

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Benjamin Antoine's avatar

ahh ok thanks for letting me know…I’ll check ip on that

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Benjamin Antoine's avatar

Yes…asking that question on a regular basis is a good way to stay grounded

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Elaina Rice's avatar

Thank you for sharing. I have to admit I was spiraling this morning thinking how can I keep up? Your words helps me to slow down and realign with my values. Again, thank you.

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Benjamin Antoine's avatar

Yes we all go through those spirals…the main thing is not to beat yourself up about it and just slow down and recenter

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Elaina Rice's avatar

Absolutely agree. Spent some time reflecting and journaling on my foundation and the scaffolding that I’m building towards that balance in my business and personal life.

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